The Average Buddhist

Thoughts & musings on everyday American Buddhism

20 December

America’s Missed Opportunities for Change

I’ve been watching the coverage of the Newtown student massacre with the usual blend of outrage and sadness. Political pundits from various arenas are each spinning their own favorite issue in the usual attempt to assign a cause to the bloodshed – or shall I clarify – a cause that can be easily summed up and addressed with Bold Legislative Action.

The most obvious of these is gun control and the expiration of the assault weapons ban. Also promoted is the impoverished state of mental health care in the United States and the difficulty inherent in obtaining (if not requiring) treatment for those who are dangerously mentally ill. All of this discussion is occurring over and around the din of the so-called “fiscal cliff” with it’s arguments about tax rates for the wealthy and expenditures on health care and other sustenance programs.

Talk, talk, talk. It goes on ad nauseam. It is irrelevant.

What will change as the result of Newtown? Absolutely nothing. Why? Because we are not even close to addressing something far more fundamental.


No matter what machinations we attempt to avoid this fundamental truth, we are all interconnected. America has a pathological relationship to interconnectedness. We have fallen victim to the lie of hyper-individuality and it is making us suffer. Ironically, the more we suffer, the more we snuggle into the cocoon of this make-believe land and the cycle begins again.

Anyone who knows me understands that I have immense respect for the strengths of an individualist world view. If Americans were not afforded individual rights and fundamental self-determination, I would not be free to be a Buddhist. If I were in China, for more reasons than one I would likely have been sent off to one of the “reeducation” work camps referenced last week in the New York Times. If that were the type of individual liberty we were talking about I’d be all for it.

Unfortunately, this is not the case. We have moved from a society that promoted individual liberty as a way to reduce unfairness and intolerance to a society which the primary concern is “I want what I want and forget everyone else.” Forget society, forget my family, forget my neighbors, if it gets in the way of what I want. That is what we have become. It breaks my heart every day beginning long before Newtown.

Until Americans experience a cultural shift in which value is assigned to our well-being as a group, not just of self, we will continue to spin our wheels when it comes to addressing some of our most crucial conundrums. Unless we are willing to put some parameters around the lawlessness of unrestrained individualism, we will be nothing more than a country of I’ll-get-mine-and-you’ll-get-whateva’.

There will never be rational discussion about an assault weapons ban outside of the context of understanding that our safety as a group outweighs the desire for certain individuals to own military-grade weapons. We can never progress in terms of care for the mentally ill until we acknowledge that societies’ right to not incur the consequences of untreated severe mental illness at times outweighs an individual’s right to refuse treatment. We can never internalize that the wealthy are so largely because of a group effort on their part with their employees and society (or from their parents) rather than their own private brilliance and therefore their worth is not so precious. It’s not just that policy can’t change. We can’t even talk about it. We can’t even imagine it.

The force of our cultural myopia in this regard will ultimately leave the events of Newtown as just another missed opportunity in a long list of missed opportunities that will be forgotten in the next news cycle. If this kind of change were easier, I guess we’d have many more Buddhas in the world. For now, we’ll have to work on it one Bodhisattva at a time.


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2 Responses to “America’s Missed Opportunities for Change”

  1. well written – thoughtful – and I believe, right on. There is a ytube going around where a symphony shows up 1 by 1 in a public place. As the music plays you can see all the people losing self and separation and becoming one with all. Your post teaches that possibility too.


  2. Carol Patterson says:

    This is the best commentary I’ve read thus far. The me-me-me outlook has left us spirtually bankrupt and lonely. We desperately look for interconnectedness during the holidays or when a tragedy such as a school shooting occurs and go back to our same selfish lives as soon as it’s past. We must strive to keep connected every day. Blessings to all!